Forgive the past. It is over. Learn from it and let go. People are constantly changing and growing. Do not cling to a limited, disconnected, negative image of a person in the past. See that person now. Your relationship is alive and changing. – Brian Weiss
Relationships are ephemeral, so are feelings of doubt, pain, anger, and desire. Nothing stay and lasts that long for as long as we want it to be. Even though nothing stays for so long doesn’t mean we cannot learn from it.
People or things may not turn out to be favorable on our part, and we can hardly we say we lost. The past is over, let’s get over with it. It simply hurts when we get to remember some bad memories, when you wake upand you remember the best times you’ver had with that person. But, who we are now is the product of past experiences combined. As for those people who have hurt and made us who we are now, they are just fine.
People change. People grow. What we tend to do is to make see the person as he is now, not based on his past, nor his previous wrongdoings.
For even we are alive, evolving, reinventing the wheel of our life, it makes us tenacious, malleable, but not brittle.
So go on, move on, learn from the past. Forgive it.